IT CAN be hard sometimes to catch the attention of someone you are interested in – but one elegance coach has revealed tips so even ‘unattractive ladies’ can become irresistible.
Anna Bey, who lives in Geneva, shared how people can be made prettier by “improving the bodies” – and it has sparked some backlash.
Anna said even if you feel your looks are holding you back, you can make steps to look “fit, healthy and toned.”
She explained: “The truth is that you don’t need to be born naturally pretty, and you don’t have to look like a potential beauty queen in order to stand out from the masses and really be that woman that makes heads turn.
“But there are secrets on how to make that happen, even if you are not conventionally what society says, beautiful.
“I need to get one shallow point out of the way… the truth is ladies, even if one person is not born with traditionally what our society calls, beautiful features, any person out there still has the power and control over improving the cards that they were dealt with genetically, simply by taking action and improving their looks.
“You don’t have to necessarily go into plastic surgery and start improving your face. You can actually just focus on improving your body.
“And by that, usually what really works, if we’re talking in the Western culture, is to really work on looking fit, healthy and toned because that does raise the attractive factor.”
Some YouTubers were quick to disagree with these points, with one saying: “It’s not true that everyone can get fit and loose weight, I suffer from ME MS and pulmonary embolisms exercise is almost impossible for me.”
Another added: “In my country, the ideal body is the chubby one. I m naturally skinny so I will pass on that one.”
However, one said: “I really appreciate the fact that you talk about culture standards. Like them or not they are still here.”
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Anna, who has 984,000 subscribers on YouTube, often shares her top tips online for finding “affluent” men and having good etiquette, revealed her top tips this week.
The coach revealed the key thing to remember is for women to use their femininity, positivity and confidence, and to appear unbothered by any attention.
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Anna said that being confident can give you that “little edge.”
She explained: “Perhaps the most important tool that every lady out there should have because people are always attracted to those with confidence.
“Because those confident people, they just simply tend to be more relaxed, more themselves and are easier to be around.
The truth is ladies, even if one person is not born with traditionally what our society calls, beautiful features, any person out there still has the power and control over improving the cards that they were dealt with genetically, simply by taking action and improving their looks.
“So regardless of how you look, if you project yourself as this kind of, let’s say, shy mouse, you’ll instantly be less desirable and less interesting to have around. But confidence ladies, confidence in sexy.
“What’s sexier than a woman who’s comfortable in her own skin and knows her worth?”
Use your femininity
The dating coach advised that allowing your “femininity to really shine” is a “superpower” women are blessed with.
She continued: “[And] we are moving away from femininity in our society, meaning that it becomes rarer and rarer so that when we actually see a feminine woman, she stands out.
“And if you really add a psychological factor to it, you’re going to notice that men will never turn down a feminine woman.”
Try to be positive
Anna said that being positive and limiting “drama” and “bad vibes” will help you to stand out.
She said: “Positivity attracts people so much and negativity just repels people. This is why we need to start thinking about what thoughts you put in [your head], meaning that are you choosing happy thoughts, or are you choosing negative thoughts?
“This is probably the mere basics but also like things such as how often do you smile? Can you try and smile more often? How is your body language?
“Also ladies in conversation, do you choose negative topics to talk about like gossip, drama or just say that that person is ugly, this one is a bad one, or do you choose positive conversation topics?”
Be unbothered and unapologetic
Anna finished by saying: “I want you to have that unapologetic, unbothered attitude, because it’s a people magnet.
“When people are themselves, just themselves, just chilling, just busy, pursuing their goals and living their best life, that energy is so contagious and so interesting because people want to be around it.
“I have seen plenty of plain average looking women who have so many people, especially men, running after them because they have this attitude.
“They don’t chase anyone. They’re not in the slightest bit desperate for attention or male company. They just do themselves. They set boundaries, ladies, and they live accordingly.”
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